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The Three C's by Arkham-Insanity The Three C's by Arkham-Insanity
The simple basics of parental spanking as presented in a poster.
This is actually part of a separate project I am working on for a original series, I have been working on for almost 6 months now.

*NOTE* For those who are not aware from actually reading my above AN this is NOT meant to be a guide for parents, (Alternatively this is not meant to be a guide for sexy spankings or S&M either...seriously guys, not all spankings are sexual.)
If you had read what I wrote, you would see that this is part of a propaganda poster for a series I am working on, Yes, the information on the poster is based off of what many parents follow and believe, (and in my personal opinion if you are going to spank, no matter if its for parental or sexy is a good reference and something to think about.)
but it is not meant for a how to guide of beating innocent children. and I do not condone senseless beating of children.

You are of course free to leave your comments for discussion, but I am neither reading them nor responding to them, but feel free to discuss your opinions, this is the internet after all, just try to be civil if you can.
(though I am not holding out much hope for that last part.)
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:icongreenyfrost:
GreenyFrost Featured By Owner Apr 10, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
My father always spanked me in anger... *cries*
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:iconaidboy6:
Aidboy6 Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I-i was never spanked…
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:iconartbyday:
ArtbyDay Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Lucky
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:iconaidboy6:
Aidboy6 Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
No I need one
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:iconartbyday:
ArtbyDay Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
XP
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:iconaidboy6:
Aidboy6 Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Please?
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:iconartbyday:
ArtbyDay Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:spank:

cheezus rice
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:iconaidboy6:
Aidboy6 Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
*sniffles tears in my eyes
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:iconartbyday:
ArtbyDay Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
If your crying, why'd you ask

...told you you were lucky....
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:iconanonwesker:
AnonWesker Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2014
this is the right way to do it
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:iconartbyday:
ArtbyDay Featured By Owner Jun 19, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I only got the chastise.
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:iconchryzen21:
Chryzen21 Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2015
I know, right?
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:iconanimegirl2012:
animegirl2012 Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
It's not even funny, how badly I need this. For years, now, I've been needing a legit punishment of this degree, but only ever receive playful sessions. To be brought to tears and comforted afterword...allowed to cry and let out all the pent-up guilt I've been fighting back all these years...Yeah. That'd be nice.
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:iconaidboy6:
Aidboy6 Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I-i would help but it would hurt me to do that to you
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:iconanimegirl2012:
animegirl2012 Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Understandable. A few weeks ago, my BF granted me a discipline session, which finally earned some serious tears from me...but it also made him cry to know he was hurting me that bad.
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:iconaidboy6:
Aidboy6 Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Yeah though I've never been spanked…
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:iconanonwesker:
AnonWesker Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2014
aaaawwww I feel so bad for you :(
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:iconlyoko-fan:
Lyoko-fan Featured By Owner Oct 18, 2013
I don't recall getting spanked by my parents. My Grandma on the other hand... :shivering: v2  She'd get out the wooden spoon, or if i really messed up, she'd have Grandpa get out the belt. I always was on my best behavior when Grandma was nearby.
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bestiefoeva Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
I got spanked by my mom with a wet hand crud that hurts a lot my dad never spanked me though if he did it would be with a belt
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:iconace-of-the-spade:
Ace-of-the-Spade Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I got spanked as a child, and only after my parents gave me warnings and I didn't listen. Thankfully they were few and far between, but I did deserve them...well, most of them. And I didn't turn out violent, or stupid, I've never taken drugs, and I'm not an alcoholic. There's a difference between beating the daylights out of a kid and giving them a few sharp smacks on their bottom. I think this poster is great, and it's how I want to be with my children when I have some.
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:iconcutechibicat:
cutechibicat Featured By Owner Jul 11, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I was never spanked.........XD
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:iconanonwesker:
AnonWesker Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2014
time for a spanking now
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:iconmametchi1234:
mametchi1234 Featured By Owner Jun 28, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Sniffle. My dad only did this kind of spanking once. The rest was out of bitter rage....
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:iconaidboy6:
Aidboy6 Featured By Owner May 29, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
*hugs*
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ElizabethAuditore Featured By Owner Jun 6, 2013  Student
Man if my dad did at least the first or third rule I might not be so terrified of him.
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Denpa Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013
With all of these spanking drawings you do one can't help but wonder: Did you used to get spanked as a child?
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:iconfightersdream:
FightersDream Featured By Owner Apr 24, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
This should be a rule.
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handprince Featured By Owner Apr 8, 2013   Interface Designer
Good for you, A-I. This is an excellent guide for fictional parents disciplining make-believe children.

Real life children should never be spanked, of course, as you mention.

After all, I was spanked as a child, and look at how badly I turned out!
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:iconanonwesker:
AnonWesker Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2014
you're just giving yourself crap, come on, I do the ssame thing, but I think of suicide and other horrible things, bro, spankings didn't make you who you are, you're only looking at yourself badly
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WiccanGoddess15 Featured By Owner Mar 14, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Damn did my parents get it wrong lol
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:iconkikikai:
kikikai Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013
I was never given the first and last Cs...
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:iconatadventurer11:
ATadventurer11 Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2013
me either
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:iconaskceilingitaly:
AskCeilingItaly Featured By Owner Apr 6, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Same here!!!!
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:iconencentix:
Encentix Featured By Owner Mar 8, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Spanking is wrong! i don't hate you're artwork i like it really much but spanking a child makes it uncompfterble. it will be scared of you. to compfort it will never apologize the fact that you hurted you're child! it's heartless and teaches that harm is good! no it's not! if you spank you're child it will be scared of you! and that means it's alone. cause it can't trust his own parents anymore. and it's alone. do you want this? that you're child is scared of you! or maybe hides everything from you because it's scared to get hurt again. seriously, stop doing that! it makes me wanna cry it makes me wanna hurt that parents like they hurt their child! i'm out!

and don't be pissed about me right now i like you and you're art and you can draw whatever you want but i can't ever support hurting a child it's abuse! hurting someone is never good. not in any way!
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:iconanonwesker:
AnonWesker Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2014
bro, it isn't abuse, abuse is senselessly beating a child in a drunken rage, that is discipline, people like you only think it is abuse because it is  inflicting pain or whatever, dude, it isn't, it is only temporary and if more parents were to spank like on this poster, life wouldn't be like this, people having harsh opinions on other people's parenting
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:iconencentix:
Encentix Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I think it is wrong and there is no way you could change my opinion that beating anyone is wrong.
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:iconanonwesker:
AnonWesker Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2014
beating and spanking are two completely different things, just saying
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:iconencentix:
Encentix Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Not for me
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:iconanonwesker:
AnonWesker Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2014
ah, whatever do you mean?
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PsDr-SfwDr-Wanekplz Featured By Owner Nov 25, 2013
Oh God, all the "you're"s
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:iconkageshadow10:
KageShadow10 Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Psichology 101:
There are 3 ways to rise a child:
-Restrictive: Oldschool parenting (rules, spanks, punishments)
-Unrestrictive: Neo-wave parenting (let the kid be free and experiment kinda stuff)
-Balanced: Mix of the two (in a well thought manner, not like a multi-personality disorder parent)
The best one is the balanced, and is followed by the restrictive.
Every educator, father and psichologist will tell you that is better to rise a kid like if he was in the army rather that giving him/her no limits.
I was spanked.
And believe me: I KNEW when I deserved it.
I know kids who never were spanked, and had a "free and unlimited growth".
Poor little bastards don't know how to shut up and can't understand that when life, fate and the world want to screw you, THEY SCREW YOU. They think they can do anything, because as kids they never had real consequences. They learned to ignore nagging and punishment, because, at the end of the day, if they violated their punishment, they only got punished again, disobeyed again and so on. And when life showed them real punishment for their lazyness and smartassness, they didn't knew how to handle it because they never experienced it.

T.L., D.R.:
Sometimes kids don't understand words or mental punishment. Sometimes the most animalistic approach is the only one that works (spanking).
And considering that, these Three C's are better that just giving the kid a spanking in the heat in the moment and without any explanation.
And if you have to choose between not spanking a kid that deserves it and not doing it...
DO IT.
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vajrasana Featured By Owner Apr 28, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Actually, many child psychologists and pediatricians agree that spanking/yelling at children just encourages violence and lowers self-esteem. If you know of the psychologist Abert Bandura, you'll know that just the sight of violence can make children more aggressive: [link]

As far as educators go, I've taken several child development classes and every teacher I've had has advised against physical punishment. Yes, you must enforce rules and hold children to certain expectations, but no you don't have to enforce them with violence.

On Spanking:
[link]
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KageShadow10 Featured By Owner Apr 28, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I know Bandura. He was APA's president and, in fact, he did the theory of the 3 types of parenting that I mentioned earlier. You did your research and made a compelling argument.
That was AWESOME!!
Wish more people in the internet were like you.
Here is my contra-argument:
The Bobo Doll experiment was of simple raw violence. And yes, if you spank, or hit a kid for everything and anything, they are very likely to become abusers themselves.
And nobody here ever mentioned yelling. That is truly an agressive and ineffective way to treat a child. (just saying...)
But these 3 C's aren't like that. It's not: "Your kid is acting like a brat? Hit that f*cker and problem solved!"
Skinner made a whole psychological branch on the base of controling conducts: The Conductism. And even though I don't like it, it surely works.
Now, we're talking about kids here. Not babies, nor teenagers. This is intended for kids around 5 to 11, where they UNDERSTAND you, but don't CARE. They haven't yet completely developed empathy, simpathy or the social interest that makes us self-restrained (that's Freud's Super Self).
So, if you take a kid that is truly misbehaving, who has been called out by his/her parents many times and still doesn't respond, and in fact doesn't know or care for anything outside his/her tantrum, and you use the 3 C's (you explain what is going to happen calmly and respectfully, you spank him/her instead of beating him/her up, and finally acknowledge that he/she is forgiven), then the kid gets conditioned.
But not to anger and to violent responses to anything, but to the fact that he knows that if he crosses the line, he will be spanked, a punishment that sometimes works better than not getting candy or being locked in his room.
I'm not saying that this is for everyone and everything (In fact, I think spanking is a Final Resource), but I acknowledge it's usefulness, and as such, that there is a way, a time and a place to use it.
What do you think?
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vajrasana Featured By Owner Apr 28, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I only mentioned yelling because it was in the article I included.

Yes I'm aware of the three parenting styles (though, I recognize them as "Authoritarian, Authoritative and Permissive")

Skinner did show that Operant Conditioning could work if applied correctly. Spanking would fall under negative reinforcement which theoretically could teach a child to stop a behavior, just as you can train animals with, but ethically I'm wary of it. I am not against a parent giving a light spanking as punishment, I wouldn't do it, but it's not my place as long as the child is not being hurt in an abusive manner.

Personally, I think solving thinks in a non-violent manner is best. Time outs and taking away privileges have been proven effective and also less detrimental to a child's psyche, now and in the future. I wouldn't be able to strike a child as punishment or otherwise.
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Chryzen21 Featured By Owner Feb 8, 2015
I was absolutely terrified whenever my parents got up in my face and started yelling. Whenever they spanked I was holding back laughter because they did it wrong. ...it's supposed to hurt, right?
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:iconkageshadow10:
KageShadow10 Featured By Owner Apr 29, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
That is a very respectable policy.
I think it's ok to have the spanking as a posibility instead of flat out ruling it out, and that sometimes, is a fast and effective way to stop a behavior.
But to each it's own. After all, there isn't a ONE TRUE WAY to raise a child.
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:iconvajrasana:
vajrasana Featured By Owner Apr 30, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Fair enough.
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:iconencentix:
Encentix Featured By Owner Mar 14, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
NO!!!
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NerdGirl98 Featured By Owner Mar 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Dude, my mother spanked me and yet I have never seen them as bad memories.
Because spanking was sort of like THE ULTIMATE PUNISHMENT.
I got more than three warnings on stuff I shouldn't do, and at the end of the day I understood WHY.
Because I went FAR over the line, and sometimes when parents see that yelling doesn't work anymore, they have to turn to something stronger.
Im actually thankfull I got them instead of time-outs or being grounded. They took too long, I think they would have been torture

I am only scared when I know I have done something wrong, and that's normal human behavior.

I'm not traumatized or scarred at all. Have never been.
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IcePanda25 Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
Right! Kids need to have consequences for their bad choices, otherwise they will never learn their lesson until something worse happens to them. Why do you think there are so many people and kids who do stupid things today? Because they never learned to restrain themselves from doing stupid things.
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